Virginity . . . and a few other thoughts

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I first came across this topic among a bunch of classmates...
Hmmm I remember this very "vocal" person who wanted every girl in this world to "be modern" .... SORRY!!! CORRECTION!!! Look Modern to his eyes , be horny etc etc..
EXCEPT FOR !!! ONE !!! fortunate/unfortunate lady who would one day have to be his wife.

Oh!! he calls its it "Be Modern"
But my version of Modern is different ... I like these >> definitions << better And so the correction.

Well here I was >>lost in thoughts about pushing this "Vocal Guy" from the top floor<< among a bunch of People I was barely managing to tolerate (I never liked these college mates of mine, who always had something to talk about my ***** etc etc ... a few feet behind my back, where I could still hear them whispering) ....
Each of them making unanimously making a single statement "That their wife has to be a virgin" and suddenly its my turn to repeat the statement.
So here I was planning a murder or should I say "Accident", making calculations on the force required to push this guy off the railing ..... and "BooM" it's my turn

So "Hmmm!!!" Stunned by my situation I somehow manage to ask myself the "Question"
. . . . . . . And realise I Really Don't care about that . . . .
Gave my answer and got those "Looks" ....


Long story short, those were the circumstances which woke up the curiosity in me on
"The Issue about a piece of Tissue"
So the usual me, did a fact search . . . . Library, Encyclopaedia, Internet (WikiPedia searches came much much later)




Moving on to me, I am always at ease with "People who can think", something which follows me even to this day... Then I Like activities (I Definitely am a little geeky, but still I love to sweat it out and do quite often)...
So Being Independent, Genuine Thinking, Creative, Assertive (but not bossy,,, U get Bossy over me, I beat u to Pulp... Simple) .... etc etc etc are some of the traits of people who make it to be my "Best Friends" .........
And I see Marriage/Relationship as a "Commitment in life long Journey with friendship" (to put it in simple terms... responsibility for each other and a few other funky funky words do come in somewhere)


ACTIVITY
This is something which caught my attention
(Oh!! btw i always a sucker for scientific facts and already knew some activities did something to the all important "tissue" .... all my readings later on was to just confirm from many sources to my fruitless effort to "explain" it to my "friends")
So the all important test wasn't a test after all


Others...
If the "View" guys have is one part of the story i have heard, there others "from both the sides" ..... Like fondling, ***jobs and some nice nice activities are not "Exactly Sex" ..... Whoa!!! "Not Exactly Sex" ......



Just Wondering . . . . .
If all the souls with great (Double) expectations met with fake *****
LoL .... Serves them good



About Me / My stand
1> I think i am "one person" types
2> I will tell tell about my past crush(es) (there is hardly anything to mention but still)
3> I would like to hear if there is/was anything serious (than coming as a surprise from someone else)
4> Something more about me >> imp's mom last comment in this post, I definitely agree on the "Conditioning" thing, I definitely have it..
5> My rules are for me to follow, not to enforce on others.... (I do advice on things like smoking, and expect others to follow the bare minimum, but I guess its OK!! he he he)

Movie Fashion Weirdness . . . .

I finally watched a movie in a mall on some cunning road>

The movie was fine, something about a Alcoholic SuperHero, I Reached some 25mins late, thanks to a 45Min notice given to me to get my a** there. So went there , usual metal detector going beep coz of my swiss army knife, and d security pple just interested in my tickets rather than a super sharp weapon.. Who terrorises a Empty theatre during the Morning show any way.


The Interval,
My first thoughts about something weird about the DressSense there were being overclouded by my hunger... U c i had not had the breakfast i had prepared (oh!! been doing it for sometime now, don't kno if its mom's new trick to force me to get married, any way i enjoy cooking, rather the freedom to have the food according to my tastes) ... ....

Well Movie over,
Stomach kind of digesting its dose of Burger, PopCorn n Pepsi....
between the pleasentries just noticing lots of strange clothes, not tho mention the Mall (my first time there u see)
Talk about MCQ's all that prospective Medical PG candidate(s) are bothered about.
A Future Pilot, and asking him to keep a small seat for us in the cabin to save on AirFare

Someware . . . .
KitKat: Maccha did u notice hat.
Me: ya, been seen quite a few, wondering if it was a co-incidence
KitKat : ya, this is supposed to be a Posh Mall, Everything Expensive, so Select Croud.... Solpa DressSense "TinG" agg irathe
Me: Ya can see . . .
KitKat : What do say to this
Me : Which one?? . . . . Whoa

The Sight . . . .
Something straight out of the Arabic Dance routine (pants i mean, that is the closest description i can give)
over that it was a thin fabric weird dirty colour, Dirty White the kind of one which white clothes get after reaptedly getting dirty and being washed with a Cheap Detergent.. ..

Soo much for the most the most expensive mall in town, so much i did not know it existed till a few days back...

Ghosts around the "Seat of Power"

KitKat - Belli - Me - Deepak (Ganga) - Deepak (Baba Don)

My Deep Dark World . . .

La Vida tagged me into this…
The Wait is Finally Over (MY FIRST TIME BEING TAGGED.... it was bound to happen some time or the other, so was actually waiting for this ..... and finally )

So here goes

1. I have this huge urge to Talk Talk Talk. Having "HAD" a lack of people around, ended up with a Constant Chatter inside my head.... I Keep Talking to Myself 24x7. (update : well it has reduced significantly after I got a handful of real real trustworthy fRiEnDs who get to hear about my deepest of thoughts REGULARLY (whether they want it or not)
2. I am very judgemental of people {I just figure out what this person is, almost instantly .... I Trust OR Exercise Caution } and I AM EXTREMELY CHOOSY about my friends. The people I have trust(ed,ing) most, I have trusted them ever since the first time I saw them (including a friend whose name I came to know only after taking to every week for a few months.... PS 2 d Friend : Maga the "Line in my Head" the first time when I saw you "Hmm!! One person whom I will keep talking to for a long long time..... But when do we first talk??? Hmmm" ... Well almost exact reconstruction of my thoughts ... )
3. I am bad at remembering Names, Especially when I meet too many people in a short span of time MY AGE OLD TRICK - " hey give ur phone No. - ..... Enter Ur Name [giving d phone/Book] I dont want to make a "SPELLING MISTAKE".
4. I remember VOICES of people, even people i havent met in years.
5. I have a Huge liking for Good Shirts, .... Hate to spend money to buy Slippers, But always ready for Shoes/Sneakers.
6. I am a little stingy (I walk upto 10-15 kms at times to save Money). Think a Zillion times before a rupee leaves my hand.. And forget about it once it does... ( I hate CoffeeDay or similar places... and am at total ease at the local Pani Puri / Bonda / Vada Gadi(s) ..... basically if spend money at any place - I HAVE TO GET BACK ENOUGH VALUE IN TERMS OF "Quality time, I get with the people I am there with".
7. I love Adventure, Si-Fii, Action, Romantic ( but not tooo senti senti ) movies ......... But hate NoBrainers ...
8. I Really Wish Mom was a little selfish and cared more for herself. ( She has undergone a lot of pain to to bring up Me & My Bro )... { i do not want to support her to stay back and go through more of the torture.... I do not want to stay here, and not sure what I will do if mom refuses to leave the "Mess" behind }
   
9. I used to hate my life (of what I had seen my entire life), and somebody actually messed up the whole "Scary Image" I had, and brought out this hope (i would say Belief) that I can actually be "Happy" ....
   
10. I had never in my earlier life, imagined myself doing creative espeically with words.... ( I was actually surprised when I came up with this, PS: This Version has been Edited)

In fear we live, think we live.
But in fear we die.
In Trust we live
We Do Live, Live Life

In fear we shrink, in fear blinded
In Trust we Bloom, in Trust we Open
For when in Trust, We are Who We actually ARE

I Guess I have More to tell, but will keep it for some people who are very speial to me....
Hmm!! Wait Not before I Tag... SiMi, Sunil, Kalam, WASA (Basically to wake up some people)

Water

Dreams . . .

Now here you go again, you say you want your freedom

Well who am I to keep you down
It's only right that you should play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness

Like a heartbeat drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had
And what you lost

Yeah, thunder only happens when it's raining
Players only love you when they're playing
Yeah, women they will come and they will go
When the rain washes you clean you'll know, you'll know...

Now here I go again, I see the crystal visions
I keep my visions to myself
Well It's only me that wants to wrap around your dreams and
Have you any dreams you'd like to sell
Dreams of loneliness

Like a heartbeat drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had
(Drives you mad,) and what you lost, (remember what you had)

Thunder only happens when it's raining
(Thunder only happens when it's...)
Players only love you when they're playing
(Players only love you when they're...)
Yeah, women they will come and they will go, (they will go...)
When the rain washes you clean you'll know...

Yeah, thunder only happens when it's raining
(Thunder only happens when it's...)
Players only love you when they're playing
(Players only love you when they're...)
Yeah, women they will come and they will go, (they will go...)
When the rain washes you clean you'll know...

You'll know, (the heartbeat drives you mad,) you'll know, (remember what you had)
You'll know...

My Favourite version by d Corrs



The Original . . . .